Thursday, August 27, 2009

090827 MARRIAGE SYSTEM WITH COMMENTS FROM ADMIRAL BHARATHAN

Along with your education, many of you will be entering new phase of life - Marriage. I think this is such an important subject that it will be worht while to discuss some of following points in our next common meeting. I will keep you informed about time and place of our next meeting. It will be on some sunday. If any of you will not be able to attend any sundays from November 29 to January 31, 2010, please let me know.

MARRIAGE SYSTEM

All human beings require wise counsel from time to time.

The spouse is your best friend motivated to give you sound advice

The spouse would also be a very good sounding board and reason with you on the merits of several decisions being taken.

Marriage is a very good safety valve both physically and mentally. It brings in a sense of responsibility while also looking after your emotional and physical natural needs.

Marriage and its institution create a good social network that is civilized and orderly in human conduct and behavior.

In the younger stages of life when energy levels are high one can mange to be all alone. As one grows older all human beings desire the comfort of a relationship. The hug of a mother is translated to hug of a spouse and children. Caring for your family would make you care for others too.

Marriage mostly guards against humans going astray. Even today despite society becoming more liberal, the institution of marriage is a safeguard against physically weakening promiscuity and consequent disease as well loose morality with adverse effects on professionalism and society.

The laws of the jungle would perhaps prevail but for the sacred institution of marriage and without it there would be more crimes in the society.
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SOME POINTS WORTH DISCUSSING ABOUT MARRIAGE:
WHY TO GET MARRIED?
ATTRACTION BETWEEN OPPOSITE SEXES
WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM MARRIAGE – YOUR PERSONAL POINTS
IMPORTANCE GIVEN TO SEX IN MARRIAGE
ADVANTAGES AND DISADVANTAGES OF MARRIAGE – LAW AND ORDER, OFFSPRINGS, HEALTH RISKS, LEGAL POINTS, SENTIMENTS, FINANCIAL STABILITY, LIFE PARTNER AND RESTRICTIONS.

HOW TO SELECT YOUR PARTNER?
YOU MUST KNOW ABOUT THE PRPOSED PARTNER – HOW MUCH?

MARRIAGE SYSTEM:
HOW DID RELIGION COME INTO MARRIAGE
DIFFERENT PRACTICES IN DIFFERENT COUNTRIES AND RELIGIONS
CONCEPT OF KANYA DAN